Thursday, May 30, 2013

Renaissance, Reformation, Revolution, Restoration

In yesterday's post I talked about my Four Rs presentation.  I can recall sitting in a history class one day, during my sophomore year in high school and the topic being discusses was the Protestant Reformation.  It suddenly hit me that the Reformation was an important precursor to the Restoration, and more thought led to the same conclusion about the Renaissance and the American Revolution (War for Independence).  A few years later I heard a presentation by the motivational speaker Hyrum Smith which covered the history from the Great Apostasy to the Restoration.  Later, on my mission, I had occasion to address some concerns by investigators by going over this history, and I basically did it off the top of my head -- I had an excellent memory in those days.

However, as I did it off the top of my head, and my memory was not infallible, I did make a few mistakes.  For example, I said the invention of the printing press enabled Martin Luther to read the Bible, but as a priest in the church he would have had access to the Bible even without the printing press.  Even so, the printing press (movable type) did make the Bible available to those outside of the clergy, and this did have a role in leading to the Reformation.  The Gutenberg Bible, printed in the 1450s, was the first major book to be printed with movable type in the West.

Another mistake I made was to state that Constantine had declared Christianity to be the state religion of Rome.  Constantine did have an important role to play when he gave Christians the freedom to worship in 313 A.D.  It was the Edict of Thessalonica by Theodosius I, Gratian, and Valentinian II in 380 A.D. which determined that all their subjects should profess the faith of the bishops of Rome and Alexandria. This made the Christian Church of the Nicene Creed the official state religion of the Roman Empire.

Speaking of the Nicene Creed, this was the result of an ecumenical council which met in Nicaea in 325 A.D. Before the council at Nicaea, there was a lot of controversy over the nature of the Godhead. One group believed that Jesus was an ordinary man who became the Christ and Son of God at his baptism; another group taught that in the role of the Son, God is manifested in the flesh as a human, in order to bring about the salvation of mankind; and a third group argued the Father was a superior and distinct being from the Son, and that the Son was a superior and distinct being from the Holy Spirit. The Council of Nicaea adopted a term for the relationship between the Father and the Son that from then on was seen as the hallmark of orthodoxy; it declared that the Son is "of the same being" as the Father. This was further developed into the formula "three persons, one being".

If the Council of Nicaea and the Creed it produced does not demonstrate why we need continuing and modern revelation, I don’t know what does.

It might be useful for missionaries to have some understanding of the history, though an in depth knowledge might not be required.  I might suggest a little research of the following topics at Wikipedia (as long as you're not writing a college paper, Wiki should be okay).

Constantine the Great and Christianity:


Edict of Thessalonica:


Council of Nicaea:


The Crusades:


The Renaissance:


The Gutenberg Press:


The Gutenberg Bible:


Martin Luther:


The Reformation:


Henry VIII:


The puritans:


Roger Williams



Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Never Bash, Part III

I was out about a year and in my third area when we tracted into Dave and taught him the first discussion about God, Jesus Christ, Joseph Smith and The Book of Mormon.  He told us that he was also studying with the Jehovah's Witnesses.  A few days later we went back to see him and he had some questions and concerns which we tried to answer.  In answer to one question I told him how I got my testimony.  His biggest concern was the scripture in Revelations 22 about man adding to the Bible.

After a few tries at answering, like referencing Deuteronomy 4, I finally said, “You’re right, man cannot add to the Bible.  I cannot go and write my own book and call it scripture, I cannot add.  But if God spoke to a prophet on this continent and commanded him to write it down and then preserve it from generation to generation and then brought those records forth to give to us, it is scripture.  It is God who has added to the Bible, and not man.  God can add; nowhere in that scripture does it say that God cannot add.  God can do anything he sets his mind to.  So, if The Book of Mormon is true, then God gave it to us and Revelations 22 does not apply.”


I believe I was inspired by the spirit.  It just hit me that it was God and not man that gave us The Book of Mormon.  Dave then asked how the record was preserved and I went on in depth about how it was, and how it was brought forth.  But it was the spirit, not me.  We left with a prayer after setting up an appointment for two days later.


When we returned to see Dave we walked into the perfect setup.  We were planning on showing him the video Our Heavenly Father’s Plan, but he told us that some friends of his were going to drop by.  A few minutes later they knocked on the door, and when Dave answered it I heard the voices of a man and a woman.  I knew right then that we were in trouble.  They come around the corner into the living room carrying their Bibles as if they were desktop binder day planners.  That confirmed it: JWs.


This pair did impress me, however.  They were very friendly, cordial and professional, unlike most other JWs I had met.  They actually took time to chat and get to know us.  Maybe they could afford the luxury of doing so because the ambush had been set so perfectly.  They said at the start that a bash would not get anywhere, so they proposed that we each take a half hour and present a message and then let Dave decide.  We graciously, and wisely, let them go first.  Actually, we let them go first because we did not have a clue as to what we were going to say.  As they gave their presentation I was praying for the spirit to guide us in what to say.  I also took notes.


They started with the creation and then talked about the fall of Adam.  They mentioned the war in heaven and posed the question of whether God had the right to rule mankind.  They said that God had created man in order to glorify himself.  They then talked about the kingdom spoken of in Daniel before turning to the Lord’s Prayer and saying that we should pray for his kingdom and also to sanctify God’s name.  Next they turned to Psalms to point out what God’s name is.  Then they turned to Revelations 14 to talk about their belief on the 144,000.  They asked what the 144,000 will do and said that they would be kings ruling over the earth.  At this point they mentioned the Atonement of Christ.  Their presentation was just one scripture after another.  There was no spirit or feeling as they spoke, we were just . . . there.  They were cold.


As we were praying and listening, we finally figured out what to do.  My companion suggested that I go first and give my Four Rs presentation.  I started off by saying I was praying that the spirit would be with me, that I would give the most important message I could.  I began with the prophets of old and talked about how God always dealt with a prophet.  I talked about the Jewish apostasy before Christ came, how the Pharisees had added to the Law of Moses.  Christ taught his gospel and organized his church with a distinct organization.  Then he took our sins upon him in the Garden of Gethsemane, was crucified and then rose in the resurrection.  I wanted to get to the Atonement quickly in contrast to their presentation.


In Matthew 28, before his ascension into heaven, Christ said “Lo I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.”  The apostles went forth to preach and were persecuted.  Paul prophesied of a great apostasy: “For that day shall not come except there be a falling away first and that man of sin be revealed the son of perdition.”  Peter prophesied of a “restitution of all things.”  The apostles were killed off and the saints began to search for answers and to slowly fall away.


I then talked about Constantine and how he united his empire by declaring Christianity the state religion.  I mentioned the Nicene Creed when church leaders and scholars met to decide the nature of God.  Then came the crusades and the return of those who went to the Holy Land brought the beginnings of the Renaissance, which brought the printing press, upward mobility and global exploration.  The printing press allowed Martin Luther to study the Bible and come up with his 95 points of Reformation.  Then King Henry VIII wanted a divorce, but the Pope said no, so the King broke away and the Church of England came to be.  But persecution abounded with the Spanish Inquisition and other responses by Rome to the Protestant Reformation.


The Pilgrims landed at Plymouth Rock in search of religious freedom and yet were just as intolerant of other faiths.  The thirteen colonies were founded, but religious intolerance still dominated.  If you lived in one colony you had to be of a certain faith and of another faith if you lived in a different colony.  Then Roger Williams founded Rhode Island on the basis of religious freedom.  Soon followed the American Revolution and Independence from Britain, and then the Constitution and the Bill of Rights which grants the privilege of worshiping how, who, where and what we may.  Intolerance slowly fades away.  Then I told the story of Joseph Smith and the Restoration.  The Lord needed to prepare the earth for the Restoration.  Such a restoration would not have succeeded in the day of Constantine or in any other day before the Constitution.  Then I bore my testimony.


My companion talked about the three greatest truths known to mankind, essentially paraphrasing Bruce R. McConkie (my comp is the only person I know who read Mormon Doctrine from cover to cover).  1. That God the Father has a body of flesh and bone.  2. That Jesus Christ is the savior of all mankind and that it is by obedience we are saved.  3. That God still inspires man through revelation and the Holy Ghost.  Then he bore his testimony.  The spirit was so strong that I was shaking.  I looked at Dave and he seemed to be overcome by the spirit.  I hoped and prayed that he felt the difference in feeling from the JW presentation to ours.


We then had a prayer and left.  On our way out, my companion advised Dave to stay close to the spirit.  We can guess what the JWs said after we left.  To top it off, we got caught in the rain on the way home.  My bike was out of commission and we were walking.


Not long after this I had an interview with my mission president and I told him about this experience with Dave and the JWs.  He said it was a waste of time because they no doubt tore down everything we said after we left.  He might have been right, but I still think it was worthwhile.  I think, however, that we should have had an agreement for the four of us to leave together and really give Dave some time to think about our presentations.  Maybe the result would have been the same, but we also might have had a fighting chance, and I think it is always worth it to take a shot.  You can’t hit a home run if you don’t take a swing at the ball.


We saw Dave only once after that, and it was clear that the JWs had won the battle.  I think that was likely to happen anyway.  We were interested, of course, in presenting our beliefs and not in tearing down the JWs beliefs.  It seems unlikely that the JWs exercised much if any restraint in tearing down our beliefs.  If Dave was more impressed by their logic than by the spirit which accompanied our teaching, there was little that could be done in any case.  We actually ran into the same pair of JWs on a few other occasions and they remained friendly and cordial

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Rely on the Spirit

On Saturday December 2, 1989, in my last area, we tracted into an older gentleman named Ben and set up an appointment for the following evening.  We ended up teaching him for three hours.  We met Ben at his office, which was filled with Born Again literature, instead of in his home.  We started teaching the first discussion and got through the Joseph Smith story.  When we started talking about the Book of Mormon, Ben asked why another book was necessary.  “We are all prophets and apostles,” he said.  Then he asked us to find one truth in The Book of Mormon that is not in the Bible.

I started flipping pages and praying for help, but I did not seem to get an answer.  So I prayed harder.  Meanwhile, my companion brought up the doctrine of eternal marriage.  As my companion and Ben hashed over Matthew 22:25-30, I had a very strong impression from the Spirit.  It said, “Every truth in The Book of Mormon is in the Bible, yet more clearly explained in the Book of Mormon.”  I was then impressed to turn to Moroni Chapter 8 and ask Ben for his feelings on infant baptism.  He said it was wrong and unnecessary and quoted the Apostle Paul as saying, “Before I had the law I was alive, but once I had the law I was dead.”  I agreed with him and then read Moroni 8:12.  He agreed with the passage and this served to confirm the earlier impression that I had received.

We talked about a few other things but eventually came back to the Book of Mormon.  My comp asked Ben if he would accept more scripture if God brought it forth.  We had to make sure that he understood that it was God that was doing it.  He answered that he would only accept it if he could find a foundation for it in the Bible.  He then repeated his challenge about finding a truth in the Book of Mormon that is not in the Bible.  The impression I got from the Spirit at this point hit me like a brick.

I said, “Wait, just a moment ago you said that if you could not find foundation for something in the Bible you would not accept it.”  Then I asked, “How can we find a truth in the Book of Mormon that is not in the Bible if you will not accept anything without a foundation for it being in the Bible?”  That got him.  He hemmed and hawed for a moment and then said that he meant a truth he had not yet found in the Bible.  “Sir,” I said, “you give us an impossible challenge, for we are not mind readers and we cannot know what you do and do not know.”  Again, he hemmed and hawed before again reissuing his challenge.

It was at this point that we concluded our meeting.  We had to hurry home so that we could be on time for the First Presidency’s Christmas Devotional satellite broadcast.  But first, I tried to give Ben my testimony and tell him how I knew these things were true.  He passed it off as irrelevant.  We gave him a copy of the Book of Mormon and challenged him to read and pray about it.  Then we departed.

Throughout this whole experience, my companion and I each had some big impressions from the Spirit.  My companion later told me that he had one impression that kept repeating; it said, “If you believe not these words, you believe not in Jesus Christ.”  He thought it was a scripture and kept asking for the reference.  Meanwhile, as Ben was bashing the Book of Mormon, we both felt the Spirit and knew that it was independent of anything he said.  In a situation where our faith might have been shaken, we both knew by virtue of the spirit that the Book of Mormon was true.  There simply could be no doubt.

During the April 2012 General Conference, President Henry B. Eyring said that "We never need to feel that we are alone or unloved in the Lord’s service because we never are. We can feel the love of God. The Savior has promised angels on our left and our right to bear us up. And He always keeps His word."  My companion and I were not left alone during our three hour teaching appointment with Ben.


In the Doctrine and Covenants we read, "Neither take ye thought beforehand what ye shall say; but treasure up in your minds continually the words of life, and it shall be given you in the very hour that portion that shall be meted unto every man. . . . And whoso receiveth you, there I will be also, for I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my Spirit shall be in your hearts, and mine angels round about you, to bear you up" (D&C 84:85, 88).

Finally, in John 14:26, we read, "But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you."


Missionaries need to study the scriptures and rely on the Holy Ghost. if they do that, they may receive help from the Spirit when teaching.  It is important to note, however, that the Comforter cannot bring something to our remembrance that we have not studied.


Monday, May 27, 2013

Christ-Centered Healing from Depression and Low Self-Worth

I know what you are thinking, why am I writing about depression? Discouragement, frustration, and even depression can impact missionaries.  The work is often difficult, many areas are slow, some companions are impossible to get a long with, each of these things can lead to discouragement and even depression.  Hard working missionaries may become disillusioned as they see other, less-hard working missionaries have the success they themselves are not having.  Missionaries experiencing adversity may start questioning their self worth if they blame themselves for lack of success.  Any of these things can lead to the downward spiral of depression.

It seems that I have always had to deal with what used to be called melancholia, much like Abraham Lincoln.  But I think that I experienced my first real depressive episode as an adult while on my mission.  I had been out nearly 18 months and was experiencing the challenge of a difficult companion.  This elder had been with me earlier in the MTC, and he arrived in our area with a reputation for working as hard, or not, as his companion.  In fact, however, by the time we were assigned to work together, he had given up.  He said one day that he didn't know why he was on a mission, and I wanted to tell him to figure it out soon because I knew why I was there and I had work to do.

Well, I didn't say that, as I didn't think it would be appropriate.  I learned quickly that I could not motivate this elder to work; he often slept through the morning and was rarely ready to go until the afternoon.  With each passing day my frustration grew.  One of our zone leaders suggested that I get ready to go and then go outside and stand by my bike; the idea being that perhaps my companion would get the idea, get ready, then come out and join me.  When I tried this I was out by my bike for 15 to 20 minutes, but my companion never came outside.  After I finally gave up, I went back into the apartment to find my companion sitting on the couch eating breakfast -- he hadn't even realized I was outside!

Frustration turned into anger which turned into discouragement.  I read a statement in a book a number of years ago which said that bitterness can turn into self-blame, even when such blame is not supported by the facts.  Adding to my self-blame was the simple fact that I was the senior companion, therefore I was responsible.

We were assigned together for three months and we hardly worked because sooner or later I gave up trying to motivate my companion to work.  In third month, in an interview with the mission president, I took full responsibility for the lack of work, and his disappointment in me was another dagger to my heart.  I prayed every night for forgiveness, but it was without faith because of my depression.

You might be surprised to learn, by the way, that during these three difficult months, we actually had two baptisms.  I can't say that either were the result of hard work on our part, though I did try to do my best when given the opportunity to teach these individuals when we received referrals to them from members in our area.

Perhaps a depressive episode such as the one I experienced is rare among missionaries; yet, perhaps, depression may be more prevalent than we might expect.  Certainly, missionaries can count on experiencing discouragement.  The following videos may contain some helpful information for dealing with discouragement and depression, even for missionaries.  The first video contains some highlights from a talk given by Carrie M. Wrigley, a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) in 2005 at BYU Eduction Week.  The second video is of the entire 55 minute talk by Sister Wrigley.


The second video can be found here (link):

http://www.byutv.org/watch/76dec84f-0d69-4f60-90fd-38cc41bb51aa/byu-education-week-carrie-m-wrigley-2005


Friday, May 24, 2013

Every Home Can Be A Mini-Missionary Training Center

Create a mini-missionary training center in your home as you help your children prepare for future missions.  In this video, Elder Russell M. Nelson teaches about the in-home preparation of future missionaries.
 

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Write Away!

As I wrote yesterday, we spent the first night after the earthquake in a tent.  Before turning in we continued to listen to news coverage on the radio.  Later, the folks across the street had hooked a television up to a generator, and we went over to watch for awhile.  Obviously, missionaries are not supposed to listen to the radio or watch TV, but these were exceptional circumstances.  We had heard about some of the damage caused by the quake, and now we got to see some of it.

They kept repeating over the radio that we should stay off the phone in order to free up the lines for emergency services.  I am the type that when emergency services make such a request, I happily comply.  The other missionaries assigned to Watsonville, however, all called home.  Our distract leader was even interviewed over the phone by his hometown newspaper.  I did ask my companion to ask his parents to call my parents and let them know that we were safe and well.  Unfortunately, something got lost in transmission; not understanding that we were all okay, my parents worried even more.

My next mistake was not immediately writing home.  Instead I spent the next week and a half writing first a very long journal entry, and then a very long letter, recounting everything that had happened, with plenty of details.  Naturally, this did not make my parents happy.  The lesson here is that if you're not going to call home, you should at least drop a postcard in the mail the next day saying that all is well.  Another suggestion, don't write home suggesting to your parents that they should prayed to know if you are safe and well.

Still, it could have been worse.  A month after the earthquake I got a new companion; he transferred in from Hollister, on the other side of the mountains from Watsonville.  Apparently, the missionaries in Hollister spent more than one night in a tent.  My new companion told me that they spent a couple of weeks in a tent, apparently waiting for someone to tell them it was safe to go back inside their apartment.  My companion made the unfortunate mistake of writing in a letter home that he was still living in a tent.  You can imagine what happened; his parents called the mission president demanding to know why their son was still living in a tent, after which the mission president called the elders in Hollister wanting to know just what in the world they were thinking.

Another lesson is no matter how bad things get, don’t tell your parents the worst of it.  As long as you are safe and healthy, that’s the important thing.  As I wrote to my nephew, then serving in Michigan, instead of writing, “Door knocking in a blizzard is fun,” it should be, “More snow this week, all is well.”  Mothers are known to worry about their sons.  “What do you mean you’re living in a tent?!”  “You’re tracting in a blizzard?!  What is wrong with you?!” Even though they announced on the news after the quake that all the missionaries in the area were fine, mothers will still worry.

Even when there isn't a major disaster, parents will worry any time they don't get a letter.  Yet there are some weeks, particularly later on in a mission, where you just don't feel there is anything to write about.  "Another week tracting, no teaching appointments, all is well," might seem like a rather unexciting letter, but it's probably better than no letter.

At the same time, some parents will not realize that it can be a big disappointment when their missionary does not receive letters from home.  I found it particularly troubling when, after I missed writing home one week, I got a lecture from my parents.  I had the temerity to fire right back about the weeks they missed writing me.  Don't do that.

Instead, you might try sending home a photo of you standing next to an empty mailbox with a sad countenance.  Or you can quote from Alma 60:6: "And now behold, we desire to know the cause of this exceedingly great neglect; yea, we desire to know the cause of your thoughtless state."

Meanwhile, as Watsonville recovered from the earthquake, we essentially forgot about proselytizing for the next month -- outside of a few teaching appointments.  Instead we volunteered with the Red Cross at the Buddhist Temple, as well as volunteering to help many families clean up.  We helped one family whose chimney had collapsed, obliterating the easy chair the husband would have been sitting in to watch game three of the world series if he hadn't had a dentist appointment instead.




Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Suriving a Major Disaster on a Mission

October 17, 1989, started out as just another day in Watsonville, California.  We went back to our apartment for an early dinner around 5:00 p.m. and my companion decided to take a nap while I ate.  As I started to eat I heard a rolling/shaking sound outside, arcing toward the apartment, then the building began to shake.  My first thought was, "Oh, we get an earthquake today."  I had experienced a few other earthquakes in the 21 months I had been in California, and they were small quakes, each under 5.5 on the Richter scale.  It quickly became obvious, however, that this was not going to be a small quake.

Our apartment building was no longer on solid ground; it was as if we were aboard a small ship being tossed violently by heavy seas.  The shock waves of the quake would pick the building up and then drop it, over and over again.  BANG! BANG! BANG!  At this point my comp woke up from his nap, thinking I was playing some kind of practical joke on him.  The shaking intensified and books started falling off shelves.  We both jumped up and collided with each other on our way to the nearest door jamb.  As we stood there, I was conscious of nothing but the quake; I did not see the havoc being raised around me.

It was 5:04 p.m., and my companion and I, and everyone else in Watsonville, were just 17 miles from the epicenter at Loma Prieta.  According to official reports, the earthquake lasted just 15 seconds, to me it seemed more like three minutes, it just went on and on and on.  When it finally ended I gradually became aware of my surroundings, and the first thing I noticed were the chandeliers -- balls at the end of a chain -- swinging around overhead.  We didn't see much else as we decided to get out as fast as we could.  We crossed the street to a park and waited, not knowing what to do.  A man came by with a radio, and as we listened, we learned about the major disaster that had hit the Bay Area.

That night we slept in a tent.  The next day we traveled around Watsonville, seeing the devastation first hand -- houses burned down after gas leaks were ignited, houses that had jumped off their foundations, building facades that had crumbled, and a large crack in the downtown shopping center.  I saw porches that had collapsed and wondered what would have happened if we had been out tracting when the quake hit.  There was a long line at the grocery store as people lined up to buy bread and water.  Everywhere we heard rumors of another, bigger earthquake to hit sometime that day or night.

We went back to our apartment and had a barbeque lunch -- we were still without electricity.  Then we took a nap to catch up on lost sleep.  We were awoken by a knock on the door, it was our mission president, his wife and the A.P.s; they had come to check on us because we weren't home when they had called us on the phone.  They told us that church headquarters in Salt Lake City knew that all of the missionaries were safe, and that an announcement would be made on the news.

That night we decided to sleep in our apartment, but we were all experiencing a little fear and trepidation due to the rumors of a bigger quake.  As I prayed before going to bed, I thanked my Heavenly Father for my life, my safety and my shelter. I then explained my fears and anxieties about the rumors of another quake, and then asked for forgiveness for my weakness. I asked that he would help my lack of faith and then I asked if there would be another earthquake. I said that I knew there would be more aftershocks, but I wanted to know if there would be any more major earthquakes. The spirit gave me a sweet assurance there would be no more big quakes and I was blessed with peace.

There were more aftershocks that night; in fact, there seemed to be an aftershock every hour on the hour.  A particularly big aftershock at 2:00 a.m. woke me up.  My heart was beating fast, but I said to myself, No, have faith. There can be no faith where there is fear. He promised that there would not be another big quake. Trust Him!”  A bigger aftershock around 3:00 a.m. woke us all up and we each ended up out in the living room. We listened to the radio for a few minutes.

By a quarter to 4:00, my companion, our district leader and his companion were asleep on the living room floor. I could not sleep and did some more reading by candlelight. By 4:30 a.m., I was also asleep on the living room floor. Thirty minutes later a big aftershock hit. Again I repeated, “No, trust Him.” That was the last aftershock of the night. The Lord kept his promise. By 8:00 a.m. then next morning we had electricity again. It felt like a turning point.  Later I wrote in my journal, "What an experience, though, to be able to go to a loving Heavenly Father and ask him if there would be any more big earthquakes, and then to receive an answer! What a confirmation of His love!"

I testify that Heavenly Father hears and answer prayers, and will give us peace when we need it, if we but ask Him in prayer.

Tomorrow I will write a little about what not to do regarding your parents after a major disaster.  I wrote about my fears; imagine how my parents must have felt. 

 

Thursday, May 16, 2013

The Whole Armor of God

"It is important that we make up our minds early in life as to what we will do and what we will not do" counseled President N. Eldon Tanner in the April 1979 General Conference. "Long before the moment of temptation comes we should have determined that we will resist that cigarette, that drink of whiskey, that act of immorality, or anything that will keep us from enjoying the companionship of the Spirit of the Lord. We all have different weaknesses and temptations, and we should examine our lives to find out what those weaknesses are and where we should put on extra armor so we can do what is right and not submit to temptation."

The talk can be found here:

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/1979/04/put-on-the-whole-armor-of-god?lang=Eng&clang=eng

It is my belief that when a member of the Quorum of the Twelve or of the First Presidency is speaking, past or present, we should be paying attention.

In October 1975, President Spencer W. Kimball addressed the General Relief Society meeting.  His talk contains counsel that can apply to all members, including missionaries.  "Temptations are great," said President Kimball. "Satan tells us that black is white. He lies to us; therefore, we must be prepared to make a bold stand before Satan, who is without flesh and blood, and against principalities and powers and the rulers of darkness. We need the whole armor of God that we may withstand. We must quench the fiery darts of the wicked with the shield of faith."

This talk can be found here:

http://www.lds.org/ensign/1976/03/the-blessings-and-responsibilities-of-womanhood?lang=eng

In the April 1974 General Conference, Elder L. Tom Perry spoke about how his parents clothed him each day.  "We were dressed in our home each morning, not only with hats and raincoats and boots to protect us from physical storm, but even more carefully our parents dressed us each day in the armor of God. As we would kneel in family prayer and listen to our father, a bearer of the priesthood, pour out his soul to the Lord for the protection of his family against the fiery darts of the wicked, one more layer was added to our shield of faith. While our shield was being made strong, theirs was always available, for they were available and we knew it."

That talk can be found here:

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1974/04/build-your-shield-of-faith?lang=eng

In the October 1986 General Conference, President Gordon B. Hinckley quoted President Wilford Woodruff, who said, “There are two powers on the earth and in the midst of the inhabitants of the earth—the power of God and the power of the devil. In our history we have had some very peculiar experiences. When God has had a people on the earth, it matters not in what age, Lucifer, the son of the morning, and the millions of fallen spirits that were cast out of heaven, have warred against God, against Christ, against the work of God, and against the people of God. And they are not backward in doing it in our day and generation. Whenever the Lord set His hand to perform any work, those powers labored to overthrow it”

President Hinckley went on to say, "The victims who fall are as precious as those who have fallen in the past. It is an ongoing battle. . . . The war goes on. It is waged across the world over the issues of agency and compulsion. It is waged by an army of missionaries over the issues of truth and error. It is waged in our own lives, day in and day out, in our homes, in our work, in our school associations; it is waged over questions of love and respect, of loyalty and fidelity, of obedience and integrity. We are all involved in it -- men and boys, each of us."

President Hinckley's talk can be found here:

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1986/10/the-war-we-are-winning?lang=eng

Excerpts from some of these talks were used in this video:


Missionaries, just like the rest of us need to put on the whole armor of God.


Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Finding People to Teach

No, this is not going to be a discussion on tracting, street contacting, or working with members to get referrals -- though I might point out that while converts can be found from tracting (I found two), referrals from members is the way to go as referrals lead to more converts than tracting.  Rather, this post is about finding people to teach mock discussions to, for those doing missionary prep as a DIY project, or whose prep program does not offer the opportunity.  Randy L. Bott, a former mission president, has this suggestion:

"Home teaching is the most often overlooked teaching opportunity.  At least once a month, young men have the opportunity to teach in a situation that parallels the missionary experience more closely than any other.  You and your companion visit a family to teach them the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Remarkable!  But what if your senior companion always teaches the lesson?  Well, why don't you shock him by volunteering to teach the next one?  If he is hesitant (which he won't be), remind him that you are trying to develop your teaching skills for your mission."

You might start off just teaching from the First Presidency message in the Ensign, but ask your companion if you can also teach one, two or even all of the discussions -- this will also give you experience in lesson planning.  "You would be light years ahead of other missionaries," writes Randy Bott, "if you could enter the MTC with the experience of teaching all [five] discussions.  You would know what questions to ask your MTC instructors, and you would know your strengths and weaknesses.  As you teach you will be more motivated to learn the scriptures and doctrines as you discuss sacred things with others."  Young women can have this same opportunity through Visiting teaching, though phone contacting is sometimes permitted if visits are hard to schedule.

Teaching mock discussions will have many benefits.  "Many missionaries," write Bott, "are shy and lack confidence in their ability to teach effectively.  These skills can be strengthened a great deal with a little experience.  Month after month you will see different reactions to different teaching styles.  You will need to adjust your style to meet people's needs rather then expecting others to accommodate your style.  Encourage them to ask questions so you will develop skills in answering.  The moment of truth is when you ask them to evaluate your teaching.  If they are honest, they will have some suggestions in areas where you might improve."

If you feel ready to teach more often than once a month, you might try talking to other families in your ward, at church or on the phone, and asking them if you could teach them a discussion.  This will give you some experience in contacting people and setting appointments.  "These people love you and want you to succeed," writes Bott.  Well, some of them might at least like your parents.  In any case,  "They will be much more patient than many investigators who haven't developed those feelings of closeness.  Try to change your weaknesses into strengths before you leave."

If you find the idea of teaching your home teaching families, or other families in the ward daunting, perhaps the best place to start is in your own home, during family home evening.  "It is difficult for Mom and Dad to always teach the lesson," writes Bott.  "What a pleasant surprise (more like shock!) if you volunteer to teach regularly.  If you start early enough, you will gain adequate experience in teaching almost all the gospel principles in a friendly setting before being thrust into a sometimes hostile environment.  Do yourself a favor and learn how to teach."

Another teaching opportunity you might seek would be to volunteer to teach a class at church.  Missionaries often have the opportunity to teach investigators who attend church in a gospel principles class during Sunday School.  Missionaries called to serve teaching in a foreign language sometimes teach English classes.  There are still other opportunities for teaching such as "at youth conferences, firesides, and discussion groups."

"Although you may feel afraid or anxious about teaching others," writes Bott, "you should realize that you have something worthwhile to say.  Choose a topic relevant to the audience you are addressing.  Try to get them involved by asking and answering questions and making observations.  You will soon discover how difficult it is to carry the entire load yourself.  When everyone is involved, teaching becomes enjoyable.  Don't ever turn down an opportunity to speak, because preparation forces us to learn.  Also, the challenge of teaching allows us to grow."


Source: Bott, R. L. (1995). Prepare with Honor: Helps for Future Missionaries. Salt Lake City: Deseret Book.