An article in a recent issue of the U.S. Naval Institute's periodical Proceedings, referenced the move The Karate Kid (the 1984 original), in which a reluctant martial arts sensei, played by the late Pat Morita, teaches an eager student, played by Ralph Macchio. Mister Miyagi uses some unconventional methods to teach Daniel LaRusso, including the repetitive polishing motion "wax on, wax off." Though Daniel thought he was performing menial tasks, Miyagi was teaching him a valuable combat skill, which Daniel comes to understand only after expressing his frustration at having spent several days waxing a car, sanding a deck and staining a fence.
The author of the Proceedings article makes the point that "Many military situations require such immediate and refined responses, and repetition builds those skills." Repetition has been called the soul of all learning. Zig Ziglar said that a person needs to hear something seven times before they really understand it. There is certainly some repetition involved in missionary work such as daily scripture study, knocking on doors and praying multiple times a day.
"Yet we need critical thinkers, sailors, Marines, and guardians who aren't always robotic," writes the author. Neither are missionaries to be automatons. Daily scripture study is important because one must learn God's word before they can teach His word. Though there may be some common answers to common concerns, there are also situations where a missionary must rely on the Spirit to bring to their rembrance something they have previously learned. Missionary work is not a paint by numbers project, often the unexpected can happen.
Miyagi told Daniel on multiple occasions in The Karate Kid that "Not everything is as seem." He was encouraging his student to search for the purpose behind the task, to think critically by suggesting there might be a hidden meaning in each seemingly pointless experience.
Miyagi had some more lessons to impart to Daniel in the sequel The Karate Kid Part II (1986), when the pair visited the island of Okinawa. The teacher explained to the student that he left Okinawa to avoid a fight with a rival whose parents had arranged a marriage to the woman Miyagi loved. Daniel could not understand why Miyagi, who was the better fighter, allowed himself to be viewed as a coward. "Never put passion before principle," answered Miyagi. Facing the challenge of his rival would have forced him to violate his principles, and for Miyagi this would be worse than being considered a coward.
As Miyagi put it, "Even if win, you lose," when you violate your own principles.
The author of the Proceeding's article noted that these lessons are relevant in the Sea Services, and "we have countless examples of when they are ignored. Too many leaders have been relieved for cause after putting passion before principle. Whether that passion is power, greed, status, sex, or money, placing them before principles causes the loss of honor -- even when you get away with it. Rewards won through passion are temporary, but principles are everlasting."
Which is what Miyagi taught Daniel when he said, "In Okinawa, honor have no time limit."
Missionaries may be tempted to think that some of the rules are pointless, or perhaps their passion will lead them to break the rules. Missionaries may break the rules and get away with it, or they may not, either way they lose. Though repentance is possible, regaining lost honor and integrity is not easy.
Personal development, for a missionary or a sailor, includes lessons about core values, "and examples exist in unexpected places," writes the author. "These movies showed how honor results from having the courage to maintain commitment to one's values, never putting passion before principle."
Make the commitment now to live the mission rules, to keep the commandments, and to work hard -- to give it everything you've got "every hour, every day, every minute, all the way" (Elder Jeffrey R. Holland address at MTC, August 24, 2010). Exercise courage when that commitment is challenged, as challenged it will be, so that you may return home with honor. Think critically and look for hidden meanings or purposes behind each seemingly pointless rule or experience. When the day of trial comes, put principle before passion.
Source:
Murphy. J. (2013). "From the Deckplates: Principle Before Passion." Proceedings, Vol. 139/2.
Preparing Members and Prospective Missionaries to Share the Gospel. Disclaimer: I Have No Calling Or Authority and Cannot Speak for the LDS Church. I Write Only from My Perspective as a Returned Missionary. Any and All Mistakes are Mine Alone.
Monday, April 8, 2013
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
The Faith to Climb Mountains
President Henry B. Eyring had this to say during the April 2012 General Conference:
"Many of you are now passing through physical, mental, and emotional trials that could cause you to cry out, 'When I have tried all my life to be good, why has this happened to me?”'
"You know how the Lord answered that question for the Prophet Joseph Smith in his prison cell:
"'And
if thou shouldst be cast into the pit, or into the hands of murderers,
and the sentence of death passed upon thee; if thou be cast into the
deep; if the billowing surge conspire against thee; if fierce winds
become thine enemy; if the heavens gather blackness, and all the
elements combine to hedge up the way; and above all, if the very jaws of
hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that
all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good.
“'The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?
“'Therefore, hold on thy way, and the priesthood shall remain with thee; for their bounds are set, they cannot pass. Thy days are known, and thy years shall not be numbered less; therefore, fear not what man can do, for God shall be with you forever and ever.'
"There seems to me no better answer to the question of why trials come and what we are to do than the words of the Lord Himself, who passed through trials for us more terrible than we can imagine.
"You and I have faith that the way to rise through and above trials is to believe that there is a 'balm in Gilead' and that the Lord has promised, 'I will not … forsake thee.' That is what President Thomas S. Monson has taught us to help us and those we serve in what seem lonely and overwhelming trials.
"But President Monson has also wisely taught that a foundation of faith in the reality of those promises takes time to build. You may have seen the need for that foundation, as I have, at the bedside of someone ready to give up the fight to endure to the end. If the foundation of faith is not embedded in our hearts, the power to endure will crumble.
"Now, I wish to encourage those who are in the midst of hard trials, who feel their faith may be fading under the onslaught of troubles. Trouble itself can be your way to strengthen and finally gain unshakable faith. Moroni, the son of Mormon in the Book of Mormon, told us how that blessing could come to pass. He teaches the simple and sweet truth that acting on even a twig of faith allows God to grow it
"That particle of faith most precious and which you should protect and use to whatever extent you can is faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Moroni taught the power of that faith this way: 'And neither at any time hath any wrought miracles until after their faith; wherefore they first believed in the Son of God.'
"If we have faith in Jesus Christ, the hardest as well as the easiest times in life can be a blessing. In all conditions, we can choose the right with the guidance of the Spirit. We have the gospel of Jesus Christ to shape and guide our lives if we choose it. And with prophets revealing to us our place in the plan of salvation, we can live with perfect hope and a feeling of peace. We never need to feel that we are alone or unloved in the Lord’s service because we never are. We can feel the love of God. The Savior has promised angels on our left and our right to bear us up. And He always keeps His word."
Source:
Eyring, H. B. (2012) "Mountains to Climb". Conference Report, April 2012. Accessed at http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/04/mountains-to-climb?lang=eng March 19, 2013.
Watch full address here:
Monday, February 25, 2013
Video: On The Lord's Errand -- The Life of Thomas S. Monson
"No one can understand President Thomas S. Monson," said Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "who does not understand the frequency, the repetition of those kinds of spiritual promptings in his life, and his absolute loyalty in responding to them."
I can think of no better modern day example of how to serve the Lord by serving his fellow men and women than that of President Monson.
I can think of no better modern day example of how to serve the Lord by serving his fellow men and women than that of President Monson.
Friday, February 22, 2013
Balancing Truth and Tolerance -- A Talk by Elder Dalin H. Oaks
"The existence and nature of truth is one of the fundamental questions of mortal life. Jesus told the Roman governor Pilate that He came into the world to 'bear witness unto the truth.' That unbeliever responded, 'What is truth?' (John 18:37–38). Earlier the Savior had declared, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life' (John 14:6). In modern revelation, He declared, 'Truth is knowledge of things as they are, and as they were, and as they are to come' (D&C 93:24).
"We believe in absolute truth, including the existence of God and the right and wrong established by His commandments. We know that the existence of God and the existence of absolute truth are fundamental to life on this earth, whether they are believed in or not. We also know that evil exists and that some things are simply, seriously, and everlastingly wrong."
Read the rest at:
https://www.lds.org/liahona/2013/02/balancing-truth-and-tolerance?lang=eng
"We believe in absolute truth, including the existence of God and the right and wrong established by His commandments. We know that the existence of God and the existence of absolute truth are fundamental to life on this earth, whether they are believed in or not. We also know that evil exists and that some things are simply, seriously, and everlastingly wrong."
Read the rest at:
https://www.lds.org/liahona/2013/02/balancing-truth-and-tolerance?lang=eng
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Video: Together Forever
I first watched this video at a baptismal ceremony in June 1988. My reaction was "Wow, what a great video." Together Forever was the third of three great videos released by the church around the time of my mission. It wasn't long before I wrote home recommending that my family find and watch this excellent video.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Video: How Rare a Posession
"I speak unto you as if ye were present, and yet ye are not. But behold, Jesus Christ hath shown you unto me, and I know your doing."
This video was released by the church in November 1987, just two months before I left on my mission. It is, quite simply, fantastic. I loved showing this video to investigators, as well as to members. Watching this video always invited the Spirit, and it was often strong and sweet. This video, which we called H-RAP for short, was one of our best tools.
This video was released by the church in November 1987, just two months before I left on my mission. It is, quite simply, fantastic. I loved showing this video to investigators, as well as to members. Watching this video always invited the Spirit, and it was often strong and sweet. This video, which we called H-RAP for short, was one of our best tools.
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Video: Our Heavenly Father's Plan
This video was released by the church in 1986, a couple of years before I left on my mission. The video basically corresponded to the 1st discussion that missionaries of my era taught. Learn it, live it, love it.
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